How to Approach a Man Without Seeming Too Forward

Personally, I don’t think that there is anything wrong with a woman taking a little bit of action and determining her own destiny and having the courage to walk up to a guy she is attracted to. Still, I know that there are plenty of women who are a little bit apprehensive about approaching a guy they like because they are afraid that they are going to come across as being too forward. Well, you can have your cake and eat it too, because there are ways to approach men without seeming too forward.

These are three tips that will help you if you want to approach a guy but don’t want to give him the wrong impression:

1. Find something to make small talk with him about and use that as a reason for approaching him.

The context in which you approach a man is really what gives him the impression that he initially has of you and if you don’t want to see too aggressive, having something in mind that you can start a little conversation about can be one way that you can make it seem less like you are approaching for any reason other than you have something that you want to talk about. Take anything that you can think of and use that as an excuse for making the approach and you won’t seem like you are being too forward at all.

2. Lightly flirt with him when you approach him.

Flirt with him a little bit too much and he might think that you are kind of “fast.” Flirt lightly with him and he probably won’t think much of it, other than the fact that he is having a good time bantering with you and getting to know you. Most guys are going to be very gracious if you start flirting with them and as long as you don’t seem to fast, you have nothing to worry about.

3. Go freshen up before you walk over to him.

If you have the time, it can be a good idea to find a way to freshen up a little bit before you walk over to him. You don’t have to go overboard with this, you just want to make sure that you look your best so that you give off a really good first impression. No guy is going to think it is weird if they get approached by a woman who looks her best. They may think that is their lucky day, but that’s about it.


Follow us on twitter

Like us on Facebook


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: